With women, the straight man would have to be the one to lead and guide.
There is a heavy pressure put on their backs to give good performance in bed that it sometimes becomes all about just impressing the woman and not actually having fun. But in gay sex, the gay man despite being the bottom-can quite kind of lead and guide the sex. Of course, this is only in the initial part because the straight men are still shy and innocent to such an act-once he gets the grasp of it, the straight man may feel manly again and get a hold of the situation. This is how straight guy porn thrives, the feeling of making a straight guy curve for you is just purely rewarding. It is as if you were that hot and desirable. It is hot because the straight guy is not a hundred percent sure with what he is doing-if this is right or wrong-but eventually succumbs to the euphoria anyway.
